John Berling Hardy
John Berling Hardy is a sought after business consultant, author, speaker and originator of "The Hidden Game"; a strategic plan to increase the success of your personal and professional life. To learn more about John and to download his free ebooks, visit http://www.johnberlinghardy.com
Articles by this Author
The Game is a Gigantic Trance
- By John Berling Hardy
- Published 01/26/2010
- Advice
- Unrated
As mentioned in book one in order for the game to work it needs to be concealed. A mechanism employed to achieve this result is what Plato referred to as a noble lie. Is a settlement which induces everyone in the society to believe that the social order, the laws, the caste system, the customs are all divinely ordained to be so.
The Natural Born Liar: The Winner in the Game of Life
- By John Berling Hardy
- Published 01/21/2010
- Advice
- Unrated
Very few of us always tell the truth. We lie about our age, about our weight, about how we liked Aunt Bertha's pastry... but there are some of us who just plain lie. They twist as a sculptor might manipulate clay. These are the Players. They do not just lie some of the time; they lie all the time. For them, lying is as second nature as breathing is to us.
The Brand Called You: How to Personalize Your Brand
- By John Berling Hardy
- Published 01/21/2010
- Advice
- Unrated
The traditional approach to branding, as far as I can tell, goes something like this:
1. List your key strengths and abilities
2. Define what it is that you are offering
3. Define your market
4. Link steps 1 and 2 to step 3
The Cult of Marketing: How this Industry Has Impacted Our Entire Lives
- By John Berling Hardy
- Published 01/21/2010
- Advice
- Unrated
As a society we have all been indoctrinated into a giant cult. It is the cult of marketing. We experience ourselves and each other as brands, commodities, assets, which are bought and sold at market.
Lying With Facts: The Future of Business?
- By John Berling Hardy
- Published 01/21/2010
- Advice
- Unrated
In today's world facts are king. What ever comment you wish to make, even the most banal, self evident observations such as people are stressed these days, someone in the crowd of listeners will invariably ask: what are your supporting facts?
Tearing Down the Bastion in the Business World
- By John Berling Hardy
- Published 01/21/2010
- Sociology
- Unrated
Over the last few months we have been experiencing the after-shock from the 2008 crash. While the vast majority of the middle class is still reeling from the pain of the disaster, and trying to figure out new ways to sustain themselves in retirement, those who were the most culpable for the fiasco- the bankers- have returned to paying themselves outrageously extravagant bonuses.
Social Leverage: The Key to Finding a Job
- By John Berling Hardy
- Published 01/21/2010
- Career
- Unrated
You need a job. You need to persuade someone to give you a job. As blunt and simplistic as that sounds, the situation is that simple.
Have We Been Played in Our Lives?
- By John Berling Hardy
- Published 01/19/2010
- Advice
- Unrated
Have you ever been in a social situation where you have felt yourself on the outside? And when you looked at who was on the inside, it simply made no sense. They weren't any smarter than you, better looking than you, or superior to you in any discernible way, yet they were on the inside, and you were on the outside, looking in.
To Thine Own Self Be True: Personal Development Tips
- By John Berling Hardy
- Published 01/19/2010
- Advice
- Unrated
When Shakespeare advises us "to thine own self be true," he is not referring to our petty self driven by its narcissistic impulses. He refers to a higher self - the one which transcends the ego and is connected to all that is.
Born Manipulators: The Future of Ethics
- By John Berling Hardy
- Published 01/19/2010
- Advice
- Unrated
The notion that we are born with some innate qualities that very much determine our course in life seems to go against the grain in North America. When it comes to natural sports ability or talents such as singing, or dancing, or music it is accepted that some of us have more natural ability than others.


