Virginia Bola
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Articles by this Author
Prolonged Unemployment: Reconnecting With The Labor Market
- By Virginia Bola
- Published 03/8/2008
- Career
- Unrated
If you have been unemployed for an extended period of time, you know that potential employers are going to look at your long period of unemployment with a jaundiced eye.
Unemployment: Become Your Own Job Coach
- By Virginia Bola
- Published 03/8/2008
- Career
- Unrated
Try reframing your perspective and instead of looking at yourself as an unemployed applicant, think of yourself as a professional job coach. Your mission is to assist someone in finding work. Luckily, you have only one client to devote your time and effort to: YOU.
Unemployment: The First 48 Hours
- By Virginia Bola
- Published 03/8/2008
- Career
- Unrated
In homicide parlance, the first 48 hours of an investigation are crucial. Similarly, there are many aspects of unemployment and job search that need to be addressed as quickly as possible.
Job Interviewing: Taking Care Of Yourself
- By Virginia Bola
- Published 03/7/2008
- Career
- Unrated
Looking for work is generally a miserable undertaking. No matter how much education and experience you have, you are in a powerless and vulnerable position.
Unemployment Blues: The Mixed Emotions Of Finding A Job
- By Virginia Bola
- Published 03/7/2008
- Career
- Unrated
Don't be surprised or upset if you don't experience an unalloyed sense of joy and optimism when you finally obtain the job you have been seeking for so long.
Unemployment Blues: Mourning Your Job Loss
- By Virginia Bola
- Published 03/7/2008
- Career
- Unrated
To lose a job, for any reason, is to lose something of value. Even work we didn't particularly like gave us some type of identity, money, sometimes prestige and power.
Job Search Secrets: Make An Organizer
- By Virginia Bola
- Published 03/7/2008
- Career
- Unrated
Creating a central organizer for our activities can help assure that we have a clear understanding of where we've been and what we've done, and provides a private resource chart for on-going contacts and re-contacts.
Unemployment Blues: Staying Afloat
- By Virginia Bola
- Published 03/7/2008
- Career
- Unrated
The unemployment checks are running out and there is no potential income in sight. Here are five tips to keep you afloat.
Unemployment Blues: Mind Over Mood
- By Virginia Bola
- Published 03/7/2008
- Career
- Unrated
Unemployment plays havoc with our emotional system. We take a number of hits all at once: loss of occupational identity, economic pressure, family anxiety, and the humiliation of job search.
Unemployment Blues: Staying Active
- By Virginia Bola
- Published 03/7/2008
- Career
- Unrated
Unemployment is depressing: financial pressures stress you out, looking for work is humiliating, and your fragile self-confidence reels under the blows of indifference and rejection.


