You can get other people to do things your way in with many different tricks and techniques. Bribery, threats, weapons, even chocolate candy. Some ways work better than others. Some ways make them angry for having met you, and some ways make them want to marry you.

In this article, I will be showing you some of the good ways to easily and naturally persuade others. They will enjoy being persuaded, and they will come back for more. And they will tell their friends about you so that you can persuade them as well. Think I'm kidding? Read on.

The most important step is to create a feeling of rapport. This is a feeling when you have a deep subconscious feeling of being connected to another person, on a deep level. Most people only feel this level of connection after a long time, but experts can produce this feeling in a matter of minutes. These are the people that get all the money, and all the dates. This also can be you, as well.

How do you do this? Use the Force, Luke. Just kidding. The quickest and most natural is to match them in as many ways as possible. The speed at which they talk, the words they use, the adjectives they use. The tonality of their voice. Their body language. Copy them in as many things as possible. If you get caught, just say "Wow, we are really alike! I was just thinking the same thing!"

OK, so you are in deep rapport, what do you do next? Steal their wallet. Just kidding. It's time to start leading them a little bit. Lean back if you are sitting, and see if they do the same thing. Scratch your ear, and see what happens. Once you've got them following you, you are ready for the Jedi mind tricks.

The most powerful way is to conversationally elicit their criteria. Get them talking by asking a lot of open ended questions. Find something they really like, and then find out why they like it. You are looking for answers like "It makes me feel calm, and peaceful," or "Because I want to be popular,", or "I feel connected to others when I do it."

Once you have their criteria, you are ready to covertly tell them what you want them to do. Simply figure out a way to conversationally show them that by doing what you want, they will fulfill their criteria. If you buy this brown bicycle, it has a really popular trim on the side, and most people feel really sexy when they ride it. If you come over to my place for dinner, I know a great recipe for salmon, which is good for blood pressure. Health is very important to me. You get the idea.

Keep in two things. One is that when you first begin to try this, it will seem clumsy at first. That's ok. Keep at it. The second thing is that you'll notice that when you get the than of this, it is an incredibly powerful and persuasive technique to almost bend people to your will. Be careful.