If you were to build something, like a birdhouse, or a spice rack, how exactly would you go about doing it? Maybe look on the Internet for some idea of how to get started. Maybe go down to the hardware store and ask for some advice. Perhaps go to your local library and find a book on woodworking skills, maybe even one that has plans on how to build whatever it is you are going to build.
What you wouldn't do would be to grab a bunch of random wood, and then hammer them together, right?
What about if you had a really beautiful woman coming over to your apartment for dinner, for the first time? How would you cook? Once again, maybe look on the Internet for some recipes, or call a female friend and ask for advice. You certainly wouldn't grab the biggest pot you throw in whatever was in your fridge that hadn't spoiled yet, and top it off with a couple shots of tequila, would you?
Not likely. Then why is it when guys set out to create things that really aren't all that important, at least not in the big scheme of things, they plan, and scheme, and make sure everything is right.
But with what is arguably the most thing that guys can create in life, a fantastic, sexually and emotionally satisfying relationship with a special woman, all conscious planning vanishes, and most guys mind goes numb and just "hopes" everything will work out ok.
Does this make any sense?
Luckily, there are tools available to create that ideal relationship, with that ideal girl, just as easily as you can build that birdhouse or a spice rack. There are several, fairly easy to learn tools of conversation and behavior you can use to engineer a woman's emotions with as much predictability as the night that follows the day.
Is there a learning curve? Of course. Does it take time? Of course. You will need to change the way you speak in certain situations. The major draw back to learning these powerful skills is that you won't be able to simply blurt out a slew of words and hope she responds. You will have to actually think about what you are saying, pay attention to her responses, and adjust your words accordingly.
It's actually not that difficult, and you'll be surprised how incredibly powerful it can work to create any desire you'd like in a woman. Even if you are already in a committed relationship, these skills can be incredibly useful. It will almost be like having an imaginary switch to turn her off and on using your skilled words and communication skills. Some have said these skills are downright dangerous.
Of course, you will need to use them with caution. You don't want to create feelings of desire in a woman when you have no intention of following through. Like any skills, they must be respected. But when you use them ethically and with a positive intention in mind, you'll be amazed how wonderfully they work.